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- Tripler Army Medical Center
- Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Service
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- Review the emotional cycle of deployment
- Discuss the effects of deployment and loss on children and adolescents
- Discuss ways that adults can help students cope with the upcoming
deployment
- Briefly review when referral is warranted
- Acknowledgement: Much of material pulled from articles and presentations
by Dr. Faran, Dr. Pincus, Dr. Lee,
- Dr. Saito, and Dr. Brown
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- Over 52 million youth attend 114,000 schools
- Over 6 million adults work in schools
- Combining students and staff, one-fifth of the U.S. population can be
found in schools
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- Pre-deployment – 1-6 months before
- Deployment – first month after leaving
- Sustainment – 2-5 months during deployment
- Re-deployment – last month
- Post-deployment – 3-6 months after
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- Anticipation of loss versus denial
- “You don’t really have to go, do you?”
- Train-up, bonding with units
- Mental and physical distance from family
- Getting affairs in order
- Arguments
- Dangerous for younger couples
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- Mixed emotions from soldier and spouse
- Relief – anger – disoriented – sadness – numbness
- Sleep difficulties
- Phone calls – email – waiting for that 1st call
- Worries about “Can I handle everything?”
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- New routines established
- New sources of support – FRG
- Feel more in control after being ‘tested’
- Independence
- New confidence – “I can do this.”
- Careful about rumors
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- Sadness
- Denial, shock and confusion
- Anger and irritability
- Inability to sleep / Nightmares
- Loss of appetite
- Children are physical in their grief
- - watch their bodies
- - understand play and actions –
often repetitive themes – often cycles
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- Fear of being alone
- Physical complaints such as stomachaches and headaches
- Loss of concentration
- Guilt over failure to prevent loss
- Depression or loss of interest in activities
- Regression—bedwetting, thumb-sucking
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- Boisterous play
- Withdrawal from friends
- Sharp drop in school performance
- School refusal
- Excessively imitating or asking questions about war / disaster
- Profound emotional reactions
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- Anticipation of homecoming
- Can be agonizing with changing schedules
- Excitement and apprehension
- Changes during time away
- New independence
- Burst of energy- “nesting” – getting ready
- Difficulty making decisions
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- Honeymoon period
- Loss of independence
- Need for “own” space by soldier and spouse
- Renegotiating routines, responsibilities
- Reintegration with family
- 1 y/o might be scared -
preschooler guilty
- School aged kids often want attention
- Adolescents might pretend not to care, moody
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- Communication – between family and military
- Referrals- jobs, education, relocating, finances
- Activities / Recreation
- Planning- legal matters, family care plan,
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medical/dental, finances
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- Maintain normalcy when possible
- Reassure safety – especially that other parent is not going to leave
- Increase physical contact – connect on different sensory levels
- Answer questions honestly as possible at child’s level of development
- - validate feelings and give
kids a chance to talk
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- Expect behavioral regression
- Project calm and control as adult
- Expect expressions of separation anxiety
- Keep routines
- Help students do something to help others
- Help students take action and take action with them
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- 11. Facilitate communication with
loved ones
- 12. Anticipate that children with special needs or mental health issues
may decompensate more easily
- 13. Be available and “askable”
- 14. Don’t be afraid to say “I don’t know.” Part of keeping the discussion open
and honest is not being afraid to say you don’t know how to answer a
question.
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- Teachers are the experts in the classroom and know their students well
- Follow your instincts
- Recognize and be ready to deal with the fact that some kids will have
parents leaving and others will not
- Use this background knowledge to develop creative ideas
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- Class discussions on deployment
- What, where, why, how long
- Personal journals- some kids write better about feelings
- Bulletin board – share pictures, experiences
- Record on calendar deployments and re-deployments of parents
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- Make scrapbook of educational progress while parent is away
- Take pictures of events, projects to send
- Daily hypothetical problem solving
- Helps students increase problem-solving skills that will be tested
during deployment
- Ask kids to give examples from school/home
- 5 steps – (1) Define (2) Brainstorm (3) Discuss alternatives (4) Decide
on action (5) Evaluate
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- Persistent fears that interfere with daily life
- Sleep disturbance over weeks
- Loss of concentration / irritability
- Behavioral problems that are atypical
- Increase in physical complaints without cause
- Withdrawal from friends and family
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- Great resource!
- ACS info
- Deployment info
- MWR info
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